Reality vs. Expectations


In life, we all have our ups and downs, yet we must remember to remain positive, humble and sustain strength at all times. At any given moment we know life happens and some things are simply out of our control. Sometimes things do not go as planned and may defer you from your daily routine. You wake up late for work. The kids aren’t moving fast enough and are running late for school; (we all know kids move like turtles in the morning, lol).


When you walk outside and see that you have a flat tire and you have a meeting in an hour. Your having issues in your personal relationship, down to you being laid off from work, remember to smile. I know that’s easier said than done. Smiling and laughing goes a long way no matter what the situation is. Staying positive takes so much stress and pressure off of things that are out of our control. When things appear to go wrong or haywire you may just need to alter and change a few things. I tend to believe that everything has happened for a reason and I like to take the positive out of what appears to be a negative morning, day or situation.


If you have one of these days or moments where it appears as if everything is going wrong. Take a step back, take a deep breath, remove your emotions for one moment and see how you can make the best out of the situation and remain positive. Positivity allows you to see things from a different perspective so you can regain control of what appears to be a bad situation. See what and how you can regain control of your own narrative, your own story or improve what appears to be a bad morning or evening.

Every day, every hour every minute try to improve and become a better you. Be thankful be grateful for who and what you are and what you have become. We can’t control what’s going on around us and we can’t control what’s going on in this world. What we can control is ourselves and how we react to the world and our surroundings. We have to teach, inspire and truly motivate and uplift each other. Pay it forward through your daily travels try to uplift and motivate someone else. Remember to Stay positive, stay humble stay focus and stay motivated.




20 Responses

  1. I love your energy and your words of inspirations. What I get out of your whole message is to over come evil with good and to live life to the fullest. I believe a lot of people can relate to this, I know I do.

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